I was honored to speak about how to take risks and try new things despite the fear of failure that so many Asian Americans are brought up eating like a breakfast of champions. Then, I had to walk the walk myself, quaking onstage in my high heeled pumps in my first-ever emcee gig at the luncheon.
Conference co-chair Isabel Nguyen, NAAAP SF Chair Christopher Do, Central Intelligence Agency's Michael Mau, and Monster Cable's "Head Monster" and keynote speaker Noel Lee, took the stage by storm, giving the kind of energizing and inspiring speeches that make you glad they do not let whatever fears they have stop them from sharing their vision and expertise.
Noel Lee zipped around the stage on a tricked out Segway in front of slides like "I always wanted to be a Rock Star!" and "Always Lead, Never Follow." His mother looked on proudly, decked out in Monster headphones and a leopard print blouse.
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| With Head Monster Noel Lee |
| Isabel Nguyen, Christopher Do, National Assoc of Asian American Professionals SF |
I had nightmares that attendees would ignore me, tweet terrible things about me or throw dinner rolls at me. I worried no one would laugh at my jokes, that the room would be full of pre-teens rolling their eyes (my usual audience at home). That the lights, the sound, my voice, my brain, would fritz. Thankfully, none of that happened. Instead, I got to share ideas with leaders and innovators, and meet attendees like one young aspiring blogger who said "I'm afraid to start."
We set a deadline for her to come up with her first post. Stepping into the unknown is hard because we don't know what will happen. Turning that dread into excitement is where we find our courage. I bet she's going to take that step and I, for one, can't wait to see what will happen!





Hi Patty - I could not tell you had any fears whatsoever! You were an awesome emcee - really fun, really funny. You really inspire me. Thank you.
ReplyDeletePatty, thank you so much for serving as MC for our conference lunch! It was great to have such a confident female speaker on stage to take on all the men. ;) Also thank you for giving me moral support during my speech! Your down-to-earth personality truly kept me calm. :) You are amazing!
ReplyDeleteThank you for being an incredible host/emcee for the conference! You really set the bar high with your humor, wit, and insights! Look forward to your book and hopefully for the chance to work with you again in the future!
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Paul
Thank you, @Paul and @Isabel, or organizing a phenomenal conference - packed with opportunities to learn, network and to be inspired. It was an honor to introduce such a great lineup of speakers. And @Uyen, I am looking forward to hearing more about your work at AList and bringing more Asian American women's voices to the fore!
ReplyDeletehi patty-this is jenny from nyc's bike riding course! thought about you and decided to conquer my fear of swimming :) just remembered your site and sorry to miss you in sf!
ReplyDeleteJenny!! I am so excited to hear from you, and to know that you're going to be facing your fear of swimming! You are in the biking chapter of my book - email me and I'll tell you more. Keep us posted about the swimming!
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